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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch your own business. Maybe you want to escape the rat race and find peace in simple living. Maybe you want to improve your health. Whatever your dream is, it is valid!
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Dreams without action are just dreams. But taking action doesn’t necessarily mean quitting your job and burning the ocean. Small steps matter. It is the ability to plug away consistently at something over time that is the key. Small steps add up. You’ll get there!
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If you keep building slowly and consistently with passion each day, adding value that matters to you, then the growth will take care of itself. The keys to achieving success are patience and avoiding complacency.
Twenty Life Changing Paradoxes
Life is full of mysteries and contradictions that can leave us scratching our heads.
Yet, these paradoxes often carry deep wisdom, challenging our perceptions and offering profound insights.
Paradoxes challenge conventional wisdom and offer simple but profound insights into what it means to live a meaningful and fulfilling life.
Let’s look at some of these and embrace their contradictions so that we can navigate the complexities of life with greater ease and understanding.
Rules Worth Breaking
Rules are the bedrock of societal functioning.
They create order, predictability, and a framework within which we can operate harmoniously.
From the laws that govern nations to the rules we set in our homes, these guidelines help us navigate life more smoothly and safely. Rules ensure fairness, protect rights, and maintain a level of decorum that makes communal living possible.
Most rules are designed with good intentions; generally speaking, following them is advisable.
They often stem from collective wisdom and experience, providing a tested path to achieving specific outcomes. Rules like "don't steal" or "pay your taxes" are fundamental to the functioning of a just society.
However, not all rules are sacrosanct.
Here are some rules worth breaking, even if it goes against what we've been taught …
Fortune Favours The Brave
Courage is a word that often evokes images of knights charging into battle, explorers venturing into uncharted territories, and everyday heroes standing up for what they believe in.
But what does it mean to be brave, and how does courage lead to financial or otherwise fortune?
In this article, we'll explore the concept of courage through the lens of Dr. Jordan Peterson, a Canadian psychologist, author, and media commentator.
We'll also examine how taking bold risks has led to fortune for some of history's most well-known figures.
Dr. Peterson says you must "look where you least want to".
It reminds us that growth and opportunity often lie outside our comfort zones.
Five Digital Waves and Why This Is The Biggest
Five monumental waves have marked our journey through the digital age, each bringing profound changes to the fabric of society..
These waves have revolutionised how we live, work, and connect, pushing the boundaries of human potential and shaping the future in ways we are only beginning to understand.
The fifth wave of technological advancement, driven by AI, promises unprecedented transformation across various sectors.
While the potential benefits are immense, it is essential to navigate the associated challenges carefully to ensure that AI contributes positively to society and enhances the well-being of individuals worldwide.
The journey through the digital age is far from over, and the successive waves of innovation will undoubtedly continue to transform our world in ways we can only imagine.
Dominoes on the World Stage
Imagine a line of dominoes, each intricately linked to the next, a delicate balance maintained by mutual dependence. You nudge the first one, and before you know it, they're all toppling over, one after the other.
This visual metaphor aptly describes the interconnected nature of our globalised world. Economies, societies, and countries are so interwoven that an event in one corner of the globe can set off a chain reaction, impacting far-flung regions in unexpected ways.
At its core, the global tapestry of economic, social, and political threads represents an interconnectedness that brings undeniable benefits, such as increased trade, cultural exchange, and technological advancement.
However, it also means that shocks in one area can propagate swiftly across borders, causing widespread disruption.
To illustrate this, let's look at the domino effect in action by exploring some real-world examples …
Why You Are Guaranteed To Get Your Ass Kicked
A famous quote by the 26th US president, Theodore (Teddy) Roosevelt, often gets tossed around when discussing courage and perseverance.
It's from a speech he gave in 1910, called "Citizenship in a Republic," but most people remember it as "The Man in the Arena."
He says:
"It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error … “
We live in a world of critics—people who love pointing out our mistakes and delight in telling us how we could have done things better.
But the truth is that those critics don't count.
How Different Are The Seven Generations Alive Today?
So, be honest, have you ever rolled your eyes when you heard someone say, "Back in my day ..." or "The children of today ... "?
Have you ever said these things?
Mmmm, I thought so.
So, how about we stroll through the seven generations alive today and see what we can learn?
As each generation brings its unique perspective, values, and quirks to the table, shaping the world in its own way, differences emerge, and with them, perceptions are formed.
Perceptions that are not always accurate.
It’s Time to Take a Pill (But Not a Chill Pill)
In life, there's this idea that sometimes we need to take a "Red Pill".
The metaphorical "red pill" derives from the iconic scene in the movie "The Matrix," where Neo is offered a choice between a red pill, symbolising truth and awakening, or a blue pill, representing ignorance and conformity.
This allegory has since been appropriated to describe confronting harsh realities, even when they challenge one's beliefs or comfort.
Therefore, the red pill concept is about stepping out of a comfortable but unrealistic way of thinking—a symbol for facing harsh truths even if they're tough to handle.
Intuitive Leadership in a Sensory World
Imagine standing at a crossroads and trying to decide which path to take.
Sensing people are the ones who carefully observe their surroundings, noting every detail—the texture of the ground beneath their feet, the rustle of leaves in the breeze, the faint scent of flowers in the air. They rely on concrete data and tangible information to guide their decisions, like a well-worn map that leads them from point A to point B.
On the other hand, intuitive people are the dreamers, the visionaries who see beyond the surface and into the realm of possibilities. They're less concerned with the details and more focused on the big picture, relying on gut instincts and flashes of insight to guide their decisions.
Lost in the Crowd
In a world where social media platforms like YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram offer the tantalizing promise of instant fame and fortune, it's easy to get swept up in the allure of being rich and famous with just the click of a button.
But the reality is far more complex, akin to showing up once for a football or cricket game and expecting to be spotted by the television cameras amidst a sea of thousands of supporters.
Imagine you have dreams of becoming the next big thing on YouTube, with millions of adoring fans hanging on your every word.
Prioritise Your Life Or Someone Else Will
Imagine this: You wake up to a barrage of emails, notifications, and demands vying for your attention. Your to-do list seems to grow longer by the minute, yet you find yourself spinning your wheels, unable to make meaningful progress.
Sound familiar?
You're not alone. In today's fast-paced world, it's all too easy to be lured into the trap of being extremely busy but without purpose, constantly reacting to the demands of others instead of proactively charting your course.
Are You Civilised ?
I asked various people what it means to be civilised, and most responded by describing a set of behaviours, values, and characteristics generally considered refined, cultured, and socially acceptable.
They mentioned things like following laws and societal norms, being educated and knowledgeable, treating others with respect, being polite, demonstrating kindness, etc.
Do you agree?
Years ago, cultural anthropologist Margaret Mead was once asked what she considered the first sign of civilisation in a culture to be.
Given the nature of anthropological fieldwork, the student expected Mead to talk about fishhooks, clay pots, or grinding stones.
Surprisingly …
To Live is to Choose
"To live is to choose. But to choose well, you must know who you are and what you stand for, where you want to go and why you want to get there." - Kofi Annan
On this winding, sometimes bumpy road we call life, our ability to navigate through or around some of the obstacles and potholes can be challenging.
If you're anything like me, you've probably found yourself standing at life's crossroads more than once, agonising over which path to take.
The Head vs The Heart
Have you ever been caught in a constant tug-of-war between the heart and the mind?
The heart operates in a realm of simplicity, cutting through the noise of rationalisation and intellectual convolution to arrive at a truth that resonates on a profoundly human level.
What the heart knows is grounded in authenticity, and often aligned with the core values and desires that define one's being.
You cannot and should not ignore it.
The Frog in the Pot
Picture a frog in a pot of water. (It's a cliché analogy, but stick with me).
Now, imagine the water is cool, comfortable, and seemingly harmless. As the frog lounges, the heat is turned up ever so gradually. The temperature rises gradually, and the frog, unaware of the subtle change, adapts to the warmth until it's too late.
This well-known metaphor is not just about frogs and pots; it's a lens through which we can view the slow normalisation of abnormal situations in society.
In today's world, we are that frog, simmering in the pot of societal norms shifting around us, often unnoticed. There's an eerie parallel between the gradual temperature rise in the pot and the creeping acceptance of abnormal circumstances as the new normal.
The Challenge of Change
"Change can be challenging, even intimidating at times, but without change, there can be no progress" - Dion Le Roux
Change is an inevitable force that shapes the course of our lives. Without change, there can be no progress. To make progress, we have no choice but to navigate the turbulent waters of change.
This navigation, in turn, will challenge us to embrace the discomfort and uncertainty that comes with change. And through that discomfort will come the realisation that the seeds of progress are being sown even though the soil may feel barren and infertile when doing so.